Feb
20What Are My Clothes Saying About Me?
Tagged Under : beauty, fashion, personal appearance
Sometimes, you hear people saying that fashion should not matter, that it is shallow or materialistic. Some people think that by putting little or no thought into their appearance, they are eschewing the trap of consumerism. But the truth is, although no one should feel obligated to conform to current fashion trends, we cannot escape the fact that the way we dress sends certain messages to the people who see us during the day.
Sometimes our clothes identify us as a part of a certain culture. Examine the way you respond to people who are dressed certain ways. What do you think if you see someone dressed in a black helmet, a bomber jacket and motorcycle boots? You probably assume that they belong to the biker subculture and that they ride a motorcycle. If you see a teenager with green spiky hair, a lot of piercings, and a denim jacket with patches sewn on, you might assume that that they consider themselves a member of the punk rock culture. These are examples of the ways that our clothes send certain signals about us.
Sometimes, people assume that someone listens to a certain type of music based on the way they are dressed. If you see a guy with a baggy white t-shirt, baggy jeans, and the latest Jordans, you might assume that he likes rap music. And if you see a woman with her jeans tucked into brown boots, a fringed denim jacket, and cowboy hat, you will probably think that she’s a fan of country music.
Some people choose to convey a message through the things that they refuse to wear. People who are vegan do not eat or wear any products that are made from animals. A vegan would refuse to wear a leather watch or any kind of fur. Some vegans would not wear wool. Instead, they would choose fabrics made only from plants or synthetic materials.
For better or for worse, our clothes tell people things about the way that we perceive ourselves. If you choose clothes that you assume send no message, such as dull neutral colors or baggy clothes that hide the shape of your body, this too sends a message. It tells people that you do not want to be noticed or dram any kind of attention. The next time you get dressed, take some time to examine your outfit, and ask a couple of key questions.
What does this outfit say about me?
Is this really something that I want to say to the world?
The bottom line is, you want your clothes to convey truthful things about you. We all have unique qualities that we can display through fashion. You should not feel limited by the latest styles or the articles in magazines. Think of your clothes as a form of art. Choose things that make you feel good. Wear colors that will make you happy if you catch a look at your reflection later in the day. If you dress in a way that truly shows who you are, chances are people will respond to you in a much more positive manner.


